No shit… this stuff comes to me in the shower.
That’s like the worst place for it to come to me… because I have no paper, no computer, and no place to write it down except for the bathtub wall, and I don’t have any of those soap crayons… haven’t had any since I was a kid.
Maybe this is an investment I need to make.
Anyway, the point is, by the time I get out of the shower to write it down, it never sounds quite as good as it did the first time around when it’s hitting my brain.
Relationships are not about autonomy.
Relationships are about two autonomous people, coming together, to make an institution work that is higher, and greater, than their autonomous selves.