No shit… this stuff comes to me in the shower.

That’s like the worst place for it to come to me… because I have no paper, no computer, and no place to write it down except for the bathtub wall, and I don’t have any of those soap crayons… haven’t had any since I was a kid.

Maybe this is an investment I need to make.

Anyway, the point is, by the time I get out of the shower to write it down, it never sounds quite as good as it did the first time around when it’s hitting my brain.

Regardless:

Relationships are not about autonomy.

Relationships are about two autonomous people, coming together, to make an institution work that is higher, and greater, than their autonomous selves.

Tagged: autonomy, Relationships, wisdom